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Three's a crowd on Valentine's Day

By: Miss Lonelyhearts

Posted: 02/10/2012 1:00 AM | Comments: 0 (including replies)

DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS; I have a problem this Valentine's season -- two women in my life. Both want to see me that night and I want to see both of them. One of them is a little straight, but the other said she's be interested in a threesome. If I mention that, my straighter girlfriend (who I feel more for) will freak. She knows we are just casual right now, but she wants more. I also don't want to stop seeing the wilder one, for obvious reasons. How do I work this? -- Double Parked, Fort Garry

Dear Double: Forgetting the threesome idea entirely, you're still going to blow it with the girlfriend you like best if you run from her to the other on the same night, no matter what your arrangement. Take a chance with the one you just like to have sex with, and ask if you can see her the night before Valentine's (NOT the night after, which is insulting). She might not be very happy about that, but she might not fuss if she has other male interests herself. Then, next week get your love life in order and drop the extra girlfriend for a real chance with the one you prefer.

Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I feel like a dork around Valentine's Day because I never seem to have a boyfriend. My two best girlfriends are coupled up and have invited me to come out with them to dinner and a nightclub "to see who I can find." Part of me wants to go and the other part doesn't want to be a fifth wheel with two couples. Should I go or stay home and watch movies with the cat and just get through the night on my own? -- Valentine Dilemma, Transcona

Dear Dilemma: Skip the dinner where you're actually in the fifth chair. But do meet them at a club where there will be lots of guys looking for a new lady on Valentine's night. Guys feel the pressure as much as girls on Valentine's night. Dress up and psych yourself up to have fun. Take a chance and ask a few guys to dance. You can always hang out with the cat the next night, when you're tired from all that dancing.

lovecoach@hotmail.com

Republished from the Winnipeg Free Press print edition February 10, 2012 D5

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