Remember to enjoy the moment

The end of June is always a special time for families with school-aged children. It marks the end of an academic year and the beginning of summer fun.

It is especially meaningful for the families who celebrate graduation from high school. I thoroughly enjoyed participating in two graduation ceremonies last month — one for St. Maurice School, and one for Fort Richmond Collegiate.

As parents, it can feel like we are holding our breath until this moment, always pushing for better study habits and maturity. There is a sense of accomplishment mixed with relief for both students and parents as the diplomas are handed over. And it all happens so fast.

These were the thoughts swimming through my mind as I prepared to climb the stage to present the Fort Richmond MLA Award to a bright young student. The recipient’s name was called, and she proceeded to the middle of the stage to collect her diploma from the principal.

I had flashbacks of my own high school graduation ceremony, recalling how focused I was on not tripping or otherwise bringing extra attention to myself. I just wanted to get it over with, and paid no attention to the words being spoken about my achievements.

The graduating student approached me as the emcee announced the award she was to receive. The details of her many accomplishments were impressive. The student stood for a quick photo, barely hearing me congratulate her, then moved to exit the stage — even though the emcee continued to praise her.

I reached out and caught the young lady by the sleeve of her gown and asked her to remain onstage and enjoy her moment. She had earned it. With a timid smile, she faced the audience until the emcee finished.

I am not sure she heard any of the words, but I am positive her parents listened attentively and cherished every moment.

Congratulations to all graduates as you embark on exciting new paths of learning. Whether at a post-secondary school or in the school of life, your futures are very bright. And always remember to pause and enjoy your own "moments" when they come.