{"id":575486931,"date":"2021-10-08T09:49:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-08T14:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.winnipegfreepress.com\/our-communities\/metro\/2021\/10\/08\/lovers-in-a-dangerous-time"},"modified":"2021-10-08T09:53:42","modified_gmt":"2021-10-08T14:53:42","slug":"lovers-in-a-dangerous-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.winnipegfreepress.com\/our-communities\/metro\/2021\/10\/08\/lovers-in-a-dangerous-time","title":{"rendered":"Lovers in a dangerous time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The pandemic affected nearly every aspect of the way humans socialize &mdash; and dating is no exception.<\/p>\n<p>Lianne Tregobov, owner and founder of Camelot Introductions, a Winnipeg-based matchmaking service, has watched the world of dating evolve during her more than two decades in the business: from the proliferation of online chat rooms to the explosion of dating apps.<\/p>\n<p>But change came quickly in the last year-and-a-half, as romantics turned to Tregobov in record numbers, eager to find love amid lockdowns.<\/p>\n<figure class='wp-caption full photo'>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/www.winnipegfreepress.com\/our-communities\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2022\/04\/ks-matchmaker-Oct6.jpg?w=1000' data-pswp-srcset='https:\/\/www.winnipegfreepress.com\/our-communities\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2022\/04\/ks-matchmaker-Oct6.jpg?w=320 320w, https:\/\/www.winnipegfreepress.com\/our-communities\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2022\/04\/ks-matchmaker-Oct6.jpg?w=600 600w, https:\/\/www.winnipegfreepress.com\/our-communities\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2022\/04\/ks-matchmaker-Oct6.jpg?w=1920 1920w' data-pswp-width='1800' data-pswp-height='1200'>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img src=\"https:\/\/www.winnipegfreepress.com\/our-communities\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2022\/04\/ks-matchmaker-Oct6.jpg?w=1000\" alt=\"Photo by Katlyn Streilein\nLianne Tregobov is the owner of Camelot Introductions, a personalized matchmaking service that connects Manitobans who are looking for long-term relationships.\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class='dynamic-caption'>Photo by Katlyn Streilein\nLianne Tregobov is the owner of Camelot Introductions, a personalized matchmaking service that connects Manitobans who are looking for long-term relationships.<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n<p>&ldquo;People were panicking, and they didn&rsquo;t want to be alone, and then when they thought the pandemic was easing up, our phone would ring like mad,&rdquo; she said.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;We had people quarantine for two weeks because they wanted to meet each other. They developed amazing relationships.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Tregobov helps make this happen for singles in their late 20s and older looking for long-term relationships. She recounted the story of an 82-year-old woman who joined Camelot Introductions.<\/p>\n<p>The woman was nervous for her date &mdash; her first after becoming windowed from a 60-year marriage &mdash; and invited Tregobov over to help her get ready. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;She had the same butterflies that my 28-year-olds have when they&rsquo;re preparing for a date, and I love that. We mature to a certain extent, but our heart is always vulnerable,&rdquo; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Mary-Jane Springer met her current husband through Camelot Introductions in 2003. At the time, Springer was in her early &lsquo;50s and had established her career as a physician. However, the death of her first husband left her widowed, and after some time, she wanted to explore new connections.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;I had a friend that basically insisted I quit with the silly online stuff and meet with a proper matchmaker,&rdquo; Springer said.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;She certainly did a fabulous job for us; everything she said and everything she matched was exactly right &#8230; It takes away some of the scariness away from meeting someone who&rsquo;s somebody you&rsquo;ve never heard of.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>During an initial conversation with a client, Tregobov learns about the individual&rsquo;s life, goals and personality and then makes her matches off of a mix of hard facts and intuition. Most couples find a good match within three face-to-face meetings, she said.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;That sounds like abracadabra, but it&rsquo;s not. I&rsquo;m very particular. I have to have the right people. It has to be the right connection,&rdquo; Tregobov added.<\/p>\n<p>Springer ended up marrying the first hopeful she met in-person through Camelot Introductions, and the pair are still happily partnered.<\/p>\n<p>Since restrictions are slackening and the city is returning to a more recognizable version of itself, Tregobov said singles are ready to get back out there, literally and metaphorically.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Humans are meant to be coupled, and when you take away regular day-to-day human interaction, and someone is isolated, it&rsquo;s not healthy.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Months upon months of being cut off from social circles has left some singles with added dating anxiety, Tregobov said. She said she&rsquo;s seen people needing to drum up more than the usual amount of nerve to meet new people.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;People are feeling like enough is enough. They&rsquo;re tired of the pandemic and want to carry on with life, and they&rsquo;re just saying, &lsquo;I want to meet someone, I want to find someone, and I want to do it now.&rsquo;&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>While the pandemic has shaped dating &mdash; with some ways being more permanent than others &mdash;<\/p>\n<p>Tregobov believes the fundamentals of love will always remain the same for those who are genuinely in search of it.<\/p>\n<p>Go online at www.camelotintroductions.com for more information.<\/p><div 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