Stay present to avoid in-person scams

Winnipeg

It’s been a long day. Work was exhausting. You have a bunch of commitments coming up. And you know you’re walking right back into a messy house when you get home. The dishes need washing, that front tire needs air and that neighbourhood committee you said you’d sit on meets tonight. With all these competing priorities rattling through your brain, there isn’t much space for what’s in front of you. You stopped at the liquor store to get a bottle of wine for your friend’s birthday and all of a sudden, your engagement ring is gone.

Scammers prey on those of us who are distracted, which yes, seems unfair when we have enough on our plate. But that’s the perfect opportunity for them to bump into you in the parking lot, try to sell you something that you politely decline, only to realize on your way home that whole interaction was a distraction from what really went on.

Scammers may work alone or in pairs to distract you or create some sort of connection (maybe a “bump”, a seemingly meaningless favour like holding something for them or even just a conversation). While that is going on, they’re working behind the facade to take something of yours. They may strip something off your hands without you even realizing it. This has happened in Winnipeg after scammers engaged their victims in conversation about their jewelry, then used slight of hand to steal it and replace it with fakes. Or if you’ve already unlocked your car, their friend may be searching through your back seat on the other side, pulling out your bag with your laptop.

With much of our attention on online scams these days, we often forget that old fashioned techniques are still alive and well. Don’t let your kindness become weakness when approached by strangers. Stay vigilant to ensure you are not put in danger, regardless of the neighbourhood you’re in.

Scammers will often prey on easy-to-grab items so make sure your phone is not in your back pocket. For women, this is especially difficult as front pockets are often not made big enough for their cellular devices. Putting your phone in a zipped jacket pocket or bodybag can slow scammers down.

Remember to trust your gut. If an interaction feels off or someone is just standing too close to you for your comfort, move away. Leave the situation and ensure your valuables are not easily accessible. It might be as quick as someone following you a little too closely then stooping down to pick up a bottle from behind you at the store. They may have seen your phone in your back pocket and made a move for it.

It’s easy to become overwhelmed in today’s world. Our minds are constantly elsewhere, leaving our present selves deserted and vulnerable to immediate threats. Remember to bring yourself back to the present by feeling the sensations in your body, looking and noticing what’s around you and listening to your instincts. Staying present isn’t just good for your mental health, it’s good for your safety.