Remember to leave the world a better place

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Remembrance Day just passed. It was day of reflection for those who laid their lives on the line for peace and a better life for us.

Depending on what generation you are, the meaning of Remembrance Day varies. As the daughter of a father who served in the Second World War, I have a direct line to the stories of war. My father has passed now, but I recall seeing his uniform in the closet, looking at photos of his chums in uniform. He came to Canada from Britain as part of the Royal Air Force and met my mother in New Brunswick. It’s amazing to think about how my parents met and why. I imagine their goodbyes each time he returned to his regiment. I’m proud to have their lineage.

My father wanted to be a gunner on a fighter plane, but couldn’t pass the vision test, so he joined the medical corps. I wonder if his experience subconsciously influenced my sister and me in our career choices, as we both chose to pursue careers in health care. My mother went to England in 1944 and worked as a secretary for one-and-a-half years, then returned to Canada, where her husband rejoined her in 1946.

There are so few veterans who hand out poppies now and, when I see them, I always make a point to stop and have a chat. They are so grateful that I am recognizing their service. I proudly wear my poppy in honour of my father and all the people who devoted their lives to the cause.

It saddens me that war continues throughout the world. Were any lessons learned from the bravery of others? We can only carry on the messages of our forefathers in the hopes that someone hears.

I don’t want to leave you on a sad note, as I recognize a lot has been gained, too, by the rescue and liberation of those persecuted, which led to their ultimate freedom. I’ll end with what I believe we can do to make this world a better place. Practise love and compassion, don’t be judgmental, remember to treat others as we would want to be treated and respect those who devote their lives for us each day, our Canadian Armed Forces, the police, firefighters, paramedics, those caring for the poor and homeless and saving lives in hospital. So many more I can add, but I know you are out there and say thank you to all.