We have not forgotten

Hey there, time traveller!
This article was published 16/11/2022 (1221 days ago), so information in it may no longer be current.

Over the past two years, many loved ones lost their lives due to a variety of illnesses or tragedies Most families did not have the opportunity to have closure in the traditional way.

Relatives, family, neighbours and acquaintances were not able to gather to share the love or respect with the family for the one they lost. Everyone was left in mourning limbo, not experiencing closure to their grief. Time ticked on but there is always that lingering feeling. A moment that triggers a reminder or memory of that person, something that makes you laugh or causes a tear to roll down your cheek.

There have been many notices of memorial services for those in this exact situation; families finally able to honour those who have passed on, gathering to share stories of the lost one who connects everyone who can be present.

Some of those who gather are people we haven’t seen in years; some have changed; others appear timeless; and the kids aren’t kids anymore — they are young adults now making their way in the world. Most in the room are strangers to them but they are happy to engage in conversation. The exception is the cute little two-year-old, balancing grapes with such precision as she walks.

If you haven’t had the chance to attend a memorial service for someone who has passed, nor had a chance to finalize the grieving process, try reaching out to the family just to say hello or to arrange a visit. Talk about that person and share your memories, laugh with them and cry with them. It helps to know that their loved one was cared about by someone other than them. This world is a busy place and life seems to be accelerating every day. We need to take some time to connect with people to remember who we’ve lost and make connections with those who are still around to help make us stronger.

R.I.P. Beverly Ryman.