Not every reunion is warm and fuzzy Jets shine light on former teammate protocol with Ehlers rolling into town By: Mike McIntyre Posted: 5:40 PM CST Thursday, Nov. 20, 2025

With a sheepish grin, Neal Pionk confessed earlier this week to a long-held secret about former teammate Nikolaj Ehlers.

“I sat next to him on the plane for five years. I know how to get into his head,” revealed the Winnipeg Jets defenceman.

Oh? Do tell.

“Not yet, not yet. I don’t want him to figure it out. But he knows. He knows it’s coming,” Pionk warned.

He’ll get his chance Friday night as Ehlers and his Carolina Hurricanes return to town for a regular-season matchup that has likely been circled on plenty of calendars, including those of the players involved.

“It’ll be fun. Might have to give him a cross-check or two,” Pionk said of Ehlers, who played 719 regular-season and playoff games with the Jets over 10 seasons before departing last summer in free agency.

Thing is, as much as he was joking around, there’s plenty of truth to what he says. It would surprise absolutely no one if Pionk — who plays a hard-nose style of game — didn’t push the boundaries of the NHL rule book at some point while trying to contain the guy known as “Fly.”

Logan Stanley can be added to that list, too. The six-foot-seven Jets blue-liner — no stranger to physicality — said there will be no free passes should he catch Ehlers in the trolley tracks.

“It will be weird seeing him on the other side. Nikky was a fan favourite in the dressing room and good friend. But once the puck drops it will be business,” said Stanley.

Which begs the question: How awkward is it to face someone you once went to battle with — someone you spent years beside on charter flights, in hotels, gyms and restaurants across the continent? Is there an unwritten code for situations like this?

A tour around the Jets dressing room quickly reinforced a common theme: It’s not in a professional athlete’s DNA to put personal relationships ahead of professional pursuits. Or, to put it more bluntly, self ahead of team.

“It will be weird seeing him on the other side. Nikky was a fan favourite in the dressing room and good friend. But once the puck drops it will be business.”

“I think everyone gets it. You can go make up after the game. But in those 60 minutes, everyone knows the job at hand,” said Tanner Pearson, who might face more ex-teammates than any other member of the Jets these days.

“I think everyone is grown up enough that when you go into a game, no matter how good of friends you are, you’re still trying to come out on the winning side and help your team win. So be it whatever happens on the ice.”

Just look at the 4 Nations Face-Off last winter in which players from Canada and the U.S. repeatedly dropped the gloves with each other in their round-robin game. This, despite the tournament happening during the middle of an NHL season with skaters from the same teams — such as Josh Morrissey, Kyle Connor and Connor Hellebuyck — on opposing sides.

“You’re going to try to do everything you can to win,” said Pearson. “It’s kind of our breed, right? You put everything on the line.”

Pearson, now 33, broke into the league in 2013 with the Los Angeles Kings, who drafted him 30th overall a year earlier. He spent parts of six seasons in L.A., winning a Stanley Cup as a rookie, before being dealt to Pittsburgh midway through the 2018-19 season.

“I still remember my first time going back there after the trade. That was definitely weird. (In the pre-game warmup) you had pucks flying across centre ice, with guys shooting me in the foot. Everybody was screwing with me,” Pearson recalled, singling out Dustin Brown as the main perpetrator.

One of the videos saved on Pearson’s phone shows him shoving Tyler Toffoli — a former Kings teammate and one of his best friends — during the heat of battle.

“It’s a reminder that I bullied him,” said Pearson.

After stops in Vancouver, Montreal, Vegas and now Winnipeg, Pearson has grown accustomed to seeing familiar faces on the other side.

“Probably the longer you’re in the league, the more it becomes a (normal) thing,” he said. “But it’s always fun when you’re playing good buddies. That never gets old. You always try to one up each other.”

Just last month, Utah Mammoth forward Brandon Tanev took a healthy run at Stanley, and the Jets defenceman didn’t look pleased in the moment. They had just been teammates last spring after Tanev arrived from Seattle at the trade deadline.

“It can be weird at some points, but when the puck drops you are playing for your team and the guys in your room,” said Stanley.

“Battles like that happen. I actually went and said ‘Hi’ to him after the game and we laughed about it. In the heat of the moment I even gave him a little whack.”

It’s a regular sight to see former teammates catching up after games in the bowels of NHL arenas, the sweat on their faces barely dry. Pearson just did that last week in Vancouver with Quinn Hughes, with the pair sharing a laugh about a contested play that had occurred during the game.

“He thought he had me. I told him there was no way he had me,” Pearson said of a scoring chance. There was a similar catch-up session earlier in the road trip with Anze Kopitar following a defeat in Los Angeles.

“I think that’s what’s so special about our league. Pretty much everyone is close and gets along really well,” said Pearson. “You can pretty much text anyone at any time and go grab a beer after a game, maybe golf in the summer.”

“You’re going to try to do everything you can to win… It’s kind of our breed, right? You put everything on the line.”

Of course, not every reunion is warm and fuzzy. Jets forward Gabe Vilardi still harbours frustration over a collision with former Kings teammate Blake Lizotte two seasons ago that caused an MCL sprain and sidelined him for six weeks.

“I’ve played with (Lizotte) a lot. He’s done a lot of little things like that,” Vilardi fumed at the time.

“It’s not an awkward fall. It’s someone pushing your feet out from the back, my knee gets caught under me and then he tackles me. It’s that simple. You make plays like that, it’s a stupid play — and it’s frustrating to think that guy sits in the box for two minutes and then I have to deal with what I’ve dealt with for the past month and a half.”

Safe to say the two men don’t exchange pleasantries after games these days. Like any workplace, not everyone gets along.

Athletes are fiercely competitive, which often brings out extra motivation when facing a former team or teammate.

“You don’t want to give them anything. You want to make sure you play hard and hopefully they don’t get anything,” said veteran winger Nino Niederreiter. “There’s no better feeling then scoring a goal against an old team. It’s fun.”

He’s done plenty of that, especially against the Minnesota Wild, where he spent parts of six years. Niederreiter also gets a little extra spark facing former clubs Carolina, Nashville and the New York Islanders.

“It can be a very emotional time when you play an old teammate. They’re friends, and many are almost part of your family,” said Niederreiter, who had Hurricanes star forward Sebastian Aho over for dinner on Thursday night.

They’ll quickly go from breaking bread together to battling against each other less than 24 hours later.

“At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter who’s on the opposite side. You have to play your game, and you have to play hard,” said Niederreiter.

“You put the friendship aside, and then you see each other after the game and talk about certain moments that happened during the game, talk about how the new life is going.”

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