Sports journalist looks back on conflicts, victories and luck

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As a teenager in Mississauga, Ont., Morgan Campbell had aspirations of playing pro football in the NFL.

He excelled at high school ball, and at track and field, and followed his dream as far as he could, eventually playing college football at Northwestern University in Illinois — not far from Chicago’s South Side, where his parents had lived before he was born.

But life, and his relatively diminutive stature, had other plans for him.

While at Northwestern, Campbell earned a journalism degree, which he put to use back north of the border as a sports reporter for the Toronto Star.

With the prospect of becoming a columnist at the Star seemingly out of reach, Campbell decided it was time to leave; he took a buyout in December 2019.

“The day I left the Star, I was on Twitter announcing I was leaving, and I was getting messages from Chris Wilson from CBC (Sports) and Scott Sellars from Penguin Random House — they both were like, ‘We know exactly what to do with you,’” says the 47-year-old Campbell, laughing.

Today Campbell is a senior correspondent for CBC Sports and his debut memoir, My Fighting Family: Borders and Bloodlines and the Battles that Made Us, was published in January by McClelland & Stewart, an imprint of Penguin Random House Canada.

My Fighting Family chronicles Campbell’s experience growing up Black in Mississauga in the 1980s and ’90s, the conflicts between his parents and grandparents throughout his formative years, his desire to play pro football in America, his ties to Chicago’s South Side and, to a lesser extent, his enduring love of R&B slow jams he’d hear on WBLK, a Buffalo radio station he listened to as a kid.

In 1969, Campbell’s parents followed his mother’s father, accomplished jazz pianist Claude Jones, to Canada from Chicago.

Jones had been lured north in the mid-’60s by gigs and the prospect of escaping the more violent strains of racism in America. And while Campbell’s parents, Pete and Jeanie, knew they weren’t leaving racism entirely behind at the border, they saw the prospect of a better life in Canada for their future family.

They eventually divorced when Campbell was a boy; Pete died of cancer in September 1994.

Unlike in other immigrant communities in the area, there weren’t many African American families in Mississauga at the time, but those who were there shared a common experience.

“We’re all people who crossed this border, left the United States to find the American dream. It’s a very American thing to do, to pick up your whole family and move someplace to find the American dream,” says Campbell.

“But it’s also ironic that my family and these other families had to leave the United States to try to find it.”

The key players in the conflicts that dominate Campbell’s memoir are his maternal grandfather, Claude Jones, and his Granny Mary, his father’s mother in Chicago. Each was ferociously stubborn and could hold epic grudges; the only thing they seemingly agreed upon is that their kids shouldn’t have married.

“Each of those people thought everything was about them. And that’s sort of what prompts them to turn little conflicts into big fights,” Campbell says. “Two other people might have been in a disagreement that had nothing to do with Granny Mary or with Grandpa, but if they got a whiff of it, suddenly it was about them. And once it’s about them, it’s 10 times bigger than it was the day before.”

Campbell had long considered writing his family’s story, but when the Star buyout offer came along, he knew it was finally time.

“I had to grow up some just to fully appreciate my parents and grandparents as human beings — fully formed, multifaceted characters,” Campbell says. “As a young person, it’s hard to even conceive of the idea that your parents had lives before you were born, identities that don’t involve you … as a middle-aged person, it’s much easier for me to make sense of all that now.”

With age and distance came the ability to look back at his griping grandparents with added insight and wisdom.

“It’s this process of learning to show empathy for people who are not always empathetic, to love people who aren’t always likable,” he explains.

“One of the points I tried to drive home in the book is the idea that each of us is the product of all these things our parents and grandparents did or didn’t do, the choices they made, the forces that acted on their lives that they couldn’t control.

“Like Granny Mary — my dad’s dad pulled out a gun; he shot at her in the house. He missed, but how different would everything have been if he had hit her? As individuals, we are the sum total of our choices. We’re also the sum total of other people’s choices … and also just luck.”

Campbell realizes that while his family experiences are his alone, others will find stories in My Fighting Family relatable relative to their own kin.

“So much of the feedback I’ve gotten from people is that, ‘Hey, your family’s not at all like my family, but your family is just like my family — we have the same stubbornness or unwillingness to forgive and big fights over stupid stuff,’” he says.

The feedback from Campbell’s family — including from his wife, retired Olympic hurdler Perdita Felicien — has been overwhelmingly positive, but he’s still waiting on one key review.

“My mom is in the process of reading it — she’s also a really, really harsh critic,” he says, laughing.

“In my mind if she gives me more than, like, two stars out of five, that’s a win.”

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