Pioneering partners

In choosing each other, same-sex couple in 19th-century Vermont defied convention

Advertisement

Advertise with us

The front cover of Charity & Sylvia, the new graphic biography by acclaimed American cartoonist Tillie Walden, recreates the striking 19th-century portrait of two women, silhouetted in profile and framed by braided human hair carefully arranged in a heart-shaped detail, that inspired this volume. They are the eponymous Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake, an openly lesbian couple who quietly made a life for themselves in rural 1800s Vermont.

Read this article for free:


or

Already have an account? Log in here »

To continue reading, please subscribe:

Subscribe and receive a limited-edition Free Press branded hat or tote.

Digital Subscription

One year of digital access for only $205*

  • Enjoy unlimited reading on winnipegfreepress.com
  • Read the E-Edition, our digital replica newspaper
  • Access News Break, our award-winning app
  • Play interactive puzzles

*First annual payment billed as $205.00 + GST for one year. This annual subscription will automatically renew at $233.00 + GST every 52 weeks (10% off the regular annual price of $259.35). Offer available to new and qualified returning subscribers only. Cancel any time.

To continue reading, please subscribe:

Add Free Press access to your Brandon Sun subscription for only an additional

$1 for the first 4 weeks*

  • Enjoy unlimited reading on winnipegfreepress.com
  • Read the E-Edition, our digital replica newspaper
  • Access News Break, our award-winning app
  • Play interactive puzzles
Start now

*Your next Brandon Sun subscription payment will increase by $1.00 and you will be charged $17.95 plus GST for four weeks. After four weeks, your payment will increase to $24.95 plus GST every four weeks.

The front cover of Charity & Sylvia, the new graphic biography by acclaimed American cartoonist Tillie Walden, recreates the striking 19th-century portrait of two women, silhouetted in profile and framed by braided human hair carefully arranged in a heart-shaped detail, that inspired this volume. They are the eponymous Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake, an openly lesbian couple who quietly made a life for themselves in rural 1800s Vermont.

Stitched together from an extensive archive of letters, journals and poetry, Walden’s moving, sepia-toned volume is narrated through both women during their time together as they navigate questions of identity, community and faith.

The story begins when Charity, a family friend of the Drakes, arrives from Massachusetts to rural Vermont. As the relationship between Charity and Sylvia develops, Walden infuses the book with a visual language of the mundane, drawing the reader’s eye to household sundries and everyday minutiae as she builds the story world through wordless panels of homesteading, domestic tasks, sewing patterns (both Charity and Sylvia earn their living as tailors) and impending weather as the seasons change.

Supplied drawing
                                Tillie Walden

Supplied drawing

Tillie Walden

She also builds out family trees for both women through backstories (including standout sections chronicling their childhoods) and daily conversations that provide context for those appearing in later scenes. Through an array of vignettes locked into a 12-panel grid, the characters move from church pews to kitchens, bedrooms, dinner tables, gardens and carriages travelling to and from neighbouring towns and states.

Walden’s grid of panels also ingeniously segments the types of conversations able to be had within each of these separate spaces, as readers get to know the women, both as the townsfolk did and as they knew each other. Palpable shifts in both narrative and pictorial tone occur; affectionate exchanges between the two female leads are often obscured by dark cross-hatchings, while scenes of the Weyburn congregation during service are detailed and well-lit, as Walden contrasts the reverend’s sombre sermons with Charity’s wry, muttered responses. Such humour also permeates many supporting pages featuring other townsfolk, including a tongue-in-cheek one-pager outlining “Some of the Choice Words That Have Been Said About Miss Charity Bryant” by disapproving neighbours.

Though much of the book is comprised of external conversations, the mental labour of reckoning with the complexities of religion and human morality is always present; as newly appointed pastor Eli Moody notes amongst the onset of American expansion, “slavery and brutality continue… Jesus died for us, but who are we?”

The same question of character weighs heavily on Sylvia, who is plagued by shame about how her relationship to Charity could affect her connection to God, and her place in His kingdom. This particular narrative thread is truly the heart of the book, skilfully woven and beautifully resolved by the author.

Amidst church and chores, life in Weybridge is slow and steady, until it isn’t, and seemingly trivial occurrences often hold devastating consequences. When possible, though, community provides hope and help; in one vignette titled “How the People of Weybridge Continue to Survive and Continue to Perish,” Walden outlines the ways in which townsfolk have aided each other in times of need.

Charity & Sylvia

Charity & Sylvia

But Walden does not shy away from mortality, which also hangs heavy as she documents the deaths in both women’s families while highlighting their complicated relationships to their own siblings. As a young woman, Charity’s refusal to raise an orphaned niece and nephew results in being sent away for “choosing her own life” instead, the aftermath of which, incidentally, leads her straight to Sylvia.

By choosing their own lives, and each other, both women were able to simply exist while maintaining a 44-year union through quiet devotion and resilience. Here, Walden’s rich portrayal of Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake grants the couple a form of continued existence — both on the page and as a vital part of New England queer history.

Nyala Ali writes about race and gender in contemporary narratives.

Report Error Submit a Tip

More Stories

Netminder no stranger to heavy workload as Jets new No. 1 readies for regular-season start

Ken Wiebe 8 minute read Preview

Netminder no stranger to heavy workload as Jets new No. 1 readies for regular-season start

Ken Wiebe 8 minute read Wednesday, Sep. 30, 2026

Stuart Skinner is quick to admit that he wasn’t always wired this way.

As the Winnipeg Jets new starting goalie prepares for his fifth NHL season, Skinner conceded that the accountability aspect that is now synonymous with his character took some time to build up.

“As I grew up and got older, you go through certain things in life that either build character or make things worse for you. It depends on your choice and your decision,” Skinner said during a recent conversation with the Free Press. “I learned it through trial and error. I learned that, sometimes, it’s hard to get honest with yourself… For me, it’s definitely been a road for me to get to a place like this.

“It definitely is one of my pillars. Accountability is so important because that brings you into a spot of what you’re going to do next. It’s easy to let yourself off the hook. I’m more in the business of putting myself on the hook.”

Read
Wednesday, Sep. 30, 2026

Port of Churchill signs agreement with Dutch port

Aaron Epp 2 minute read Preview

Port of Churchill signs agreement with Dutch port

Aaron Epp 2 minute read Tuesday, Sep. 29, 2026

Arctic Gateway Group, operator of the Port of Churchill, has signed an agreement with the Port of Rotterdam in the Netherlands to attract business and strengthen supply chains linking Western Canada and Europe.

The agreement enables the two ports to work together to develop new trade in critical minerals and energy products, connect Canadian producers with European buyers, and identify opportunities to improve the supply chain from Western Canadian resource projects through Churchill and into European markets.

The Port of Rotterdam is Europe’s largest port and home to more than 3,000 businesses across its industrial complex, serving as a major gateway for critical raw materials and energy.

Meanwhile, the Port of Churchill has been identified as a transformative national strategy for Canada and is emerging as a northern trade corridor connecting Western Canada’s resources to global markets.

Read
Tuesday, Sep. 29, 2026

Face up to fact you blew it with ex-wife

Maureen Scurfield 4 minute read Yesterday at 2:01 AM CDT

DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: My ex-wife just moved back to town and looks like a changed woman. She spent years married to me, and our kids just graduated in a city where we once lived together. That was without help from me, other than minor financial stuff.

She has found a great new job back in Winnipeg and she’ll do very well. I admire her more than any other woman I ever met, but she’s not interested in me at all.

I once had a solid, responsible job and then got into drinking, and I cheated on her. That’s why she left town. Now I’ve been sober and sorry for many years.

I asked her last weekend if I could take her out to dinner and she said no and changed the subject.

As political jockeying begins, don’t forget job No. 1

Editorial 4 minute read Preview

As political jockeying begins, don’t forget job No. 1

Editorial 4 minute read Yesterday at 2:01 AM CDT

The goal, for all parties in a democracy, is to make the best legislation and bring in the strongest policy forward for voters and citizens.

Read
Yesterday at 2:01 AM CDT

Six high school hockey programs ceased operations as direct result of Hockey Manitoba policy

Joshua Frey-Sam 7 minute read Preview

Six high school hockey programs ceased operations as direct result of Hockey Manitoba policy

Joshua Frey-Sam 7 minute read 5:16 PM CDT

She lived the best of both worlds.

For the last three years, the 17-year-old wore a sweater for two different hockey programs — her high school team and AAA club in the Manitoba Female Hockey League — and was preparing to flourish in both colours again this winter.

Recently, however, the blue-liner was disappointed to learn she is no longer eligible to play her Grade 12 season with her school owing to a new policy imposed by Hockey Manitoba that bans players from participating in the Manitoba Women’s High School Hockey League if they are rostered on a U18 AAA team.

The rule applies to all athletes who play for both Winnipeg-based and rural AAA teams.

Read
5:16 PM CDT

Kent Monkman debuts beaver sculpture in Toronto’s ambitious new waterfront park

Alex Nino Gheciu, The Canadian Press 2 minute read Preview

Kent Monkman debuts beaver sculpture in Toronto’s ambitious new waterfront park

Alex Nino Gheciu, The Canadian Press 2 minute read Updated: 3:33 PM CDT

TORONTO - Kent Monkman’s first-ever public art installation is dam good.

The celebrated Cree artist’s new permanent sculpture, dubbed “The Colony,” debuts Wednesday in Toronto’s east end.

The 15-foot-high bronze structure features beavers dancing, feasting and celebrating, evoking Indigenous ceremonies.

It highlights the vital role of beavers in the natural, Indigenous and colonial histories of Turtle Island, says a release.

Read
Updated: 3:33 PM CDT