Volunteers help adoptees connect with their past

Advertisement

Advertise with us

Adoptee Roy Kading grew up not knowing where he came from. He was unsure of whom he looked like, whose characteristics he shared, and he was unaware that he had biological siblings. That changed in 1977 when, after years of searching, he found his birth mother and then his biological brothers and sisters.

Read this article for free:


or

Already have an account? Log in here »

To continue reading, please subscribe:

Subscribe and receive a limited-edition Free Press branded hat or tote.

Digital Subscription

One year of digital access for only $205*

  • Enjoy unlimited reading on winnipegfreepress.com
  • Read the E-Edition, our digital replica newspaper
  • Access News Break, our award-winning app
  • Play interactive puzzles

*First annual payment billed as $205.00 + GST for one year. This annual subscription will automatically renew at $233.00 + GST every 52 weeks (10% off the regular annual price of $259.35). Offer available to new and qualified returning subscribers only. Cancel any time.

To continue reading, please subscribe:

Add Free Press access to your Brandon Sun subscription for only an additional

$1 for the first 4 weeks*

  • Enjoy unlimited reading on winnipegfreepress.com
  • Read the E-Edition, our digital replica newspaper
  • Access News Break, our award-winning app
  • Play interactive puzzles
Start now

*Your next Brandon Sun subscription payment will increase by $1.00 and you will be charged $17.95 plus GST for four weeks. After four weeks, your payment will increase to $24.95 plus GST every four weeks.

Hey there, time traveller!
This article was published 29/11/2010 (5738 days ago), so information in it may no longer be current.

Adoptee Roy Kading grew up not knowing where he came from. He was unsure of whom he looked like, whose characteristics he shared, and he was unaware that he had biological siblings. That changed in 1977 when, after years of searching, he found his birth mother and then his biological brothers and sisters.

Now 76 years old, Kading is helping others to do the same. A volunteer with Links Post Legal Adoption Support, he developed and maintains a website for the organization as well as conducts searches for those seeking family members.

“I was in the same position as them,” said Kading, who was adopted at 13 months of age. “You have no background. You don’t know your nationality. You don’t know your health history. I think everybody who is adopted deserves to know their background and where they came from. “

BORIS.MINKEVICH@FREEPRESS.MB.CA
Roy Kading, who was adopted, runs a website to help adoptees learn about their past and their biological family members.
BORIS.MINKEVICH@FREEPRESS.MB.CA Roy Kading, who was adopted, runs a website to help adoptees learn about their past and their biological family members.

He said getting to meet his biological mother helped answer many questions. As well, it helped him find the gravesite of his biological father who had died just two years prior. Interestingly, Kading, a Canadian National Railway retiree, also found out he had actually worked on the railway with one of his biological uncles, unaware of the close relationship.

Currently, on the Links Post Legal Adoption Support website there are about 5,000 names of Canadians searching for matches — three quarters of those are from Manitoba. Kading, a St. Vital grandfather, said the organization will help any Canadian — adoptees, birth parents, siblings or grandparents. He explained that although the government will help connect birth parents and adoptees there is much red tape, taking months or even years. Through his volunteer work with Links Post Legal Adoption Support, Kading said he has often completed matches within one day. Since starting the website in 1995, he has assisted nearly 400 searching individuals in finding a family member.

“I go through newspapers, I go through history books. I go through cemetery records. I look through obituaries, looking for families — you have to build a family,” explained Kading. “You get a name and then build a family with what information you have.”

He adds that for the most part family members are happy to be reconnected. Only on rare occasions has he had to deal with those not wanting contact.

“Most of them (were) good but I’ve had some of them that didn’t like to be contacted and raised hell and cursed and swore at me on the phone and slammed the phone down but that’s alright — that’s going to happen,” he said with a smile. “But even then, at least (the searching party) knows who they are and they get some information and I think that’s what most people want.”

If you would like more information about Links Post Legal Adoption Support, please visit members.shaw.ca/linksadoptionsupport.

 

If you know a special volunteer who strives to make their community a better place to live, please contact Erin Madden at erinmadden@shaw.ca.

Report Error Submit a Tip

More Stories

Rainbow Stage’s Legally Blonde a lovely legal musical

Holly Harris 6 minute read Preview

Rainbow Stage’s Legally Blonde a lovely legal musical

Holly Harris 6 minute read 5:44 PM CDT

Omigod, you guys! Rainbow Stage kicked off its penultimate summer production Thursday with a high-octane joy machine bathed in a sea of pink.

Inspired by the 2001 Hollywood film starring Reese Witherspoon, and Amanda Brown’s same-titled novel, the award-winning Legally Blonde: The Musical — featuring a book by Heather Hach, with music/lyrics by Laurence O’Keefe and Nell Benjamin — opened on Broadway in April 2007, followed by a subsequent West End run.

The tale — equal parts cheesy rom-com and potent siren call for female autonomy and empowerment — focuses on quintessential Cali-girl Elle Woods (a pitch-perfect Claire Mac Master). A proud daughter and president of Delta Nu sorority house, she enrols at Harvard Law School to win back her upwardly mobile ex-boyfriend, Warner Huntington III (Duncan Cox).

Laser-focused on marrying a “Jackie, not a Marilyn,” Warner dreams of becoming an American senator, latching onto uber-preppy fellow pupil Vivienne Kensington (Julie Davis), who becomes Elle’s arch nemesis.

Read
5:44 PM CDT

Signs the Carney approach is working

Editorial 4 minute read Preview

Signs the Carney approach is working

Editorial 4 minute read Wednesday, Aug. 12, 2026

It was, if nothing else, a glowing review in trying times.

Matt Winkler, the editor in chief emeritus of Bloomberg News, spoke last week on Bloomberg Business News Daily about a recent Bloomberg analysis of the performance of the Canadian economy, and this country as a target for investment

“This is one of the greatest periods for overseas investment in Canada that we’ve seen in the century, and it may be unprecedented, because we have to wait for the rest of the year. … Money is pouring into Canada like we have not seen from everywhere. Stocks and bonds are the obvious beneficiaries,” Winkler said. He argued that Canada is both liked and seen as reasonable.

“The point is… Canada since Mark Carney became prime minister in 2025, has outperformed everyone in America and also the Eurozone and anywhere in the world. The 10 largest stock markets in the world, Canada appreciated the most, more than 40 per cent. … Its bond market is also doing great, partially because the inflation rate in Canada, unlike the Eurozone or America, is actually trending lower, and is outperforming both the Eurozone and the U.S.”

Read
Wednesday, Aug. 12, 2026

City Lego seller continues to build up its business

Gabrielle Piché 4 minute read Preview

City Lego seller continues to build up its business

Gabrielle Piché 4 minute read Updated: 8:54 AM CDT

Brick by brick, a Winnipeg Lego seller is building its third expansion — in less than two years.

Read
Updated: 8:54 AM CDT

Sea Bears staff a who’s who of hustlers in the hoops community

Joshua Frey-Sam 7 minute read Preview

Sea Bears staff a who’s who of hustlers in the hoops community

Joshua Frey-Sam 7 minute read 6:09 PM CDT

Ilarion Bonhomme was admittedly surprised when he got the call.

Not because he wasn’t confident in his ability to take the next step, but because he knew there were so many other qualified options.

On the other side of the line was newly minted Winnipeg Sea Bears head coach Mike Raimbault, offering the young coach a spot on his staff for this summer and Bonhomme a full-time opportunity to work with professionals.

“Surprised me, yes, because obviously he’s got such a huge coaching network and he had so much conversation with so many coaches,” Bonhomme said. “For him to kind of pick me to be part of it, yeah, I was surprised and, like I said, super excited.”

Read
6:09 PM CDT

Puzzles Palace

1 minute read Monday, Jul. 27, 2026

To solve our puzzles, please subscribe with this special offer: |

‘Disrespectful’: residents frustrated after Wyatt arrives hour late to committee meeting

Joyanne Pursaga 3 minute read Preview

‘Disrespectful’: residents frustrated after Wyatt arrives hour late to committee meeting

Joyanne Pursaga 3 minute read Updated: 1:00 PM CDT

Several Winnipeggers attending a city development hearing on Thursday expressed frustration that one councillor arrived about an hour late, delaying the matter from being heard.

Coun. Russ Wyatt, who continues to attend city hall while facing criminal charges, began participating in the 9:30 a.m. East Kildonan-Transcona community committee meeting at 10:35 a.m.

A resident who hoped to speak at the meeting about a development plan in south Transcona noted the tardiness led the committee to bump the topic down on its agenda, while dozens waited to speak on it.

Christina Pyra eventually opted to leave city hall instead of waiting for her turn to make a presentation, to avoid missing a work commitment.

Read
Updated: 1:00 PM CDT