Volunteer work helps to ease grief

Mennonite Disaster Service provided outlet for Winkler couple while helping communities in need

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For Abe and Norma Wiebe, grieving led to construction work.

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For Abe and Norma Wiebe, grieving led to construction work.

Last September, the Winkler couple’s youngest son, Paul, died after a six-month battle with cancer. He was 37. Less than three months later, their eldest granddaughter, Breyann, died in a head-on highway collision. She was 26.

In the midst of their grief, the Wiebes resolved to volunteer with Mennonite Disaster Service (MDS), a non-profit organization that rebuilds the homes of those affected by disasters in Canada and the United States.

“It was a tough year,” Norma says. “So come the new year, in January we were just thinking that we want to help people who need help — help them recover from losses.”

This past summer, the retirees travelled to Cape Breton, where they spent a month repairing homes damaged by Hurricane Fiona.

Norma helped with a variety of tasks, including installing vapour barriers, mudding drywall and painting. Abe did roofing, washed walls and cut grass.

“Where they needed us is where we went,” Norma says.

Getting to know the people whose homes they were repairing was one of the biggest highlights.

“The sense of joy and happiness that I felt it brought those we were able to help was just outstanding for me,” Abe says. “We all came out there with the same intent — basically, putting our belief into action — and that was certainly rewarded in so many ways.”

The Wiebes also formed meaningful friendships with their fellow volunteers, including three young adults who were there for a week.

The five spent a weekend sightseeing together, which coincided with Breyann’s birthday.

“It helped having the young people around to get through it,” Norma says. “They were our grandchildren (for the week).”

Those young adults were also present when the Wiebes dropped some of Paul’s ashes into the Atlantic.

“It was difficult because I guess we still miss him a lot, but it was good that we were able to share that with somebody other than just the two of us,” Abe says.

The Wiebes were two of the 69 Manitobans who served with MDS during its eight-month operation in Cape Breton, which concluded last month.

A total of 458 MDS volunteers helped in Cape Breton, contributing more than 32,000 hours of service.

During the eight years he’s volunteered with MDS, Denis Sabourin has witnessed the organization’s impact time and time again.

“It’s an organization that has changed many lives,” says the semi-retired cartographer, who lives in Winnipeg. “Not just the homeowners; it changes our volunteers and everyone who’s involved.”

Like the Wiebes, Sabourin was in Cape Breton for a month this summer. He spent two weeks roofing, installing drywall, laying flooring and painting and two weeks doing office management work.

Some of Sabourin’s most meaningful MDS experiences have happened during the dedication ceremonies MDS holds for each completed home.

It’s a time when volunteers can celebrate the work they have done, say a blessing for the home, give the client a handmade quilt and present them with the keys to their house.

“The home dedications are very special,” Sabourin says. “I just feel it gives the homeowner some closure and some hope.”

Anyone interested in volunteering with MDS can visit mds.mennonite.net/volunteer for details.

The job descriptions and time commitments vary. No previous skills or experience are needed.

“I would certainly recommend it,” Abe says. “There is some wonderful work to be done through MDS.”

If you know a special volunteer, contact aaron.epp@gmail.com.

Aaron Epp

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