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The true heart of sport and community
5 minute read 2:00 AM CSTI’m scanning the horizon at Windsor Park Nordic Centre, looking for a particular orange parka to reappear. It’s an absolutely perfect day for this cross-country skiing event, the temperature is just -14 C with a slight breeze. I’m standing among people I’ve never met, yet they’re all shouting my son’s name, calling him toward the finish line. In front of me, someone else’s kid falls down and is struggling to get back up. I bend over and hook my arm under his and put him back on his skis. I know his name, too, because it was shouted with similar enthusiasm by the same crowd that shouted my son’s name.
I am struck by how instantaneously this community has coalesced in just a few hours on the snowy golf course. The acceptance and inclusion through sport is immediate, especially with this group.
Sport, for me, had always been associated with high performance. I had a family member who competed at the university level, and we would gather around the TV for Winnipeg Jets and Blue Bombers games when I was growing up. We even had a couple of Don Cherry’s Rock’em Sock’em Hockey videotapes. But I was never much of an athlete myself. I was the kid sitting down in the middle of the soccer pitch braiding a dandelion crown while the game roared around me. I found my home in the arts, in dance and music, and later, in writing.
Sport, and especially professional sport, seems inextricable from politics, masculinity and capitalism, and events of recent weeks have only served to underscore this. Throughout the week, the top stories on the Free Press website have been ones criticizing the behaviour of Jets goalie Connor Hellebuyck’s post-Olympic behaviour. From the locker room to the White House, our hometown pride fizzled into skepticism and then dismay.
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Family friction can be too real for some reality TV
4 minute read 2:00 AM CSTDEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: My man and I get a kick out of watching reality TV shows about people searching for their biological birth parents, estranged half-siblings and other relatives. But can you explain why we only see stories that have been cherry-picked for happiness and feel-good results?
That’s simply not realistic! I’d prefer to see the whole situation — the good, the bad and the ugly stuff.
— Feeling Ripped-Off, St. Norbert
Dear Feeling Ripped-Off: You have to remember that these shows do feature real-life people, in real situations, even if they are somewhat staged at times for dramatic effect. It would be cruel and painful to feature family meetups that went badly or were hurtful and sad for everybody involved.
Here’s where to stop and sip awhile in weeks ahead
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4 minute read Yesterday at 2:00 AM CSTDEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: My new lady friend is lively and full of herself, and a lot of fun to be around.
My recently deceased wife was quiet and sweet, and not interested much in socializing. It wasn’t a passionate marriage, but more a cheerful friendship. My new woman, on the other hand, likes a good argument, as it revs her up in every way.
Not all of my friends like her and that is a bit of a problem. To try to get rid of her, my drinking buddies are now clumsily trying to introduce me to different women.
In my age group, there are starting to be widows, more divorcees and also a few singles, but I’m not an enthusiastic dater. I’m a bit shy.
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4 minute read Thursday, Mar. 5, 2026DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: I’ve had it. My unemployed husband and my lazy son, who is in his first year of university, stay in bed while I go to work at the hospital for the day. Half the time my son doesn’t even get up to make it to his morning classes.
Today, I finally lost it and tipped my son’s mattress so he fell out on the floor. Then I yelled at him and handed him a list of undone chores to be completed by the time I got home.
As for my husband, he and I had it out last night about him not even looking for a job. He said he was depressed. I said, “Boo-hoo. It’s time to man up.”
I was not always like this. I used to be a really nice person — a loving wife and mother. But now I feel so used and abused, I just can’t take it anymore. While it’s true I make good money, that doesn’t excuse the two of them from pulling their weight.
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4 minute read Wednesday, Mar. 4, 2026DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: Nothing could be worse. My ex-wife has come back to Winnipeg from another city, as she got her old job back with the company where I work, plus a fat promotion according to our office gossip.
I was shocked. They didn’t used to do rehires, but I guess she was special. They chased her and got her back because she is “the best in the world at what she does.” At least, that’s what she told me today.
I don’t want her back here, even though it’s a big company, because the truth is I never really got over her. It took a couple of years before I stopped missing her and thinking about her. My family knows how hard the breakup was for me.
But this company doesn’t care. I just have to bite the bullet because she will help the big boys make more money. Any suggestions?
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