Sexy night at the lake just a fling for engaged neighbour

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I went to my cabin one last time, and the weather was so beautiful I sat outside to watch the northern lights, perfectly blissful. My single neighbour wandered over. He had done the same thing — went to his cabin one more time all by himself. We made a fire, hot dogs and s’mores’ he got his guitar and we sang and had some Irish coffees. And then, for some reason — I guess I was a little drunk — I leaned over and kissed him as he was singing Light My Fire.

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I went to my cabin one last time, and the weather was so beautiful I sat outside to watch the northern lights, perfectly blissful. My single neighbour wandered over. He had done the same thing — went to his cabin one more time all by himself. We made a fire, hot dogs and s’mores’ he got his guitar and we sang and had some Irish coffees. And then, for some reason — I guess I was a little drunk — I leaned over and kissed him as he was singing Light My Fire.

That ended up in a tangle on the blankets and sleeping bags we had, and we made love. Afterward he said, “I should apologize, but I could never be sorry about doing that with such a beautiful woman on a night like this.” Then he said, “We’ll take it to our graves, OK?” I’m single, but he’s engaged to a woman in another city. Does that mean he doesn’t really love her? I have a huge crush on him now. Should I fight to get him?

— Longing For More, Winnipeg

 

Dear Longing: He asked you to take this tumble to the grave, not take it to emotional heights. There is a slight chance he may do some thinking and extricate himself from his engagement, or he may put it behind him — a last fling before he settles down.

It sounds like it was a fun night with great sex, but sadly for you, that doesn’t mean he suddenly felt emotional about it. He was probably just feeling lonely and sexy and drunk. You know he’s praying this sexual romp never comes to light.

You have only one job — do nothing gracefully — and stop waiting. If he breaks up with his fiancée on the strength of that night and comes looking for you that’s a bonus, but don’t count on it. For now, put the brakes on your fantasy and look for another guy who’s the same kind of combination: a lake guy who loves music. Your ace in the hole? You have a cabin you can take your type of man to, and you’ve already done the rehearsal.

 

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