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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: My clingy mother needs to get lost. She has always butted in on everything I do. I’m 34, single and likely to stay that way. I want her to move off, but she’s not going anywhere. If we don’t get away from each other my life is stalled as her forever-single son.
If I have a woman over on the weekend, she pops in with food and explains to the woman (who might have slept over) that I’m so hopeless. She asks the women invasive questions and basically smiles that phony smile as she tries to destroy my relationships before they get off the ground. Once she tried to stay, clean my house and do my laundry. I literally pushed her out the door and the girl I was with ran out 10 minutes later. Mom is a widow, has no life of her own and acts like my substitute mate. What should I do?
— Love Her, But Can’t Stand Her Clinginess, River Heights
Dear Can’t Stand Clinginess: Up to now, you have been letting your mom get away with this. Since you can’t stand up to her, you need the geographical cure. You must get a place where she can’t just drop in whenever she wants. That may have to be in another province. This will upset her severely, but you have to make a strong move now to get launched and find a mate. At 34, it’s time for change. A psychologist could help you to change your relationship to “ordinary mother and son.”
Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@hotmail.com or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave., Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6
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