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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I’m an older woman with a younger boyfriend. For the first four months we didn’t go out together in public, but now we do. The sniggering stopped after my guy met and talked with my friends and their husbands. My grown kids are a different situation. I have a fair amount of money and my 40-somethings don’t want it to go elsewhere when I die except their bank accounts. I’m not sick, but I’m not super-healthy either. People in my family often die well before they’ve lost their minds.

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I’m an older woman with a younger boyfriend. For the first four months we didn’t go out together in public, but now we do. The sniggering stopped after my guy met and talked with my friends and their husbands. My grown kids are a different situation. I have a fair amount of money and my 40-somethings don’t want it to go elsewhere when I die except their bank accounts. I’m not sick, but I’m not super-healthy either. People in my family often die well before they’ve lost their minds.

The kids don’t realize I already spent a lot of my money and there’s only my pension and the house left. Should I tell them that? Why should I have to lower myself to that?

— Golden Girl With Great Boyfriend, River Heights

 

Dear Golden Girl: Don’t tell anybody anything. You could jokingly say, “My money’s almost all gone, and when it’s finished, I’m coming over to live at your houses. I might come sooner if you scare this lovely man away. Then you can look after me.”

 

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