Superstitious man a curse on relationship

Advertisement

Advertise with us

Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I’m a superstitious person and always stay home from work on Friday the 13th so I avoid everything that might cause me harm. I don’t leave the house at all. I know this is silly to most people, but it has worked for me and I’ve stayed safe for many years. The other day my new girlfriend (I am divorced from a superstitious person) asked me why I was planning to be away from work on Friday the 13th. She said cynically, “You have no real plans and don’t seem sick.” I took a chance and told her. She said, “Really? That’s ridiculous! What kind of baby are you?”

Read this article for free:


or

Already have an account? Log in here »

To continue reading, please subscribe:

Subscribe and receive a limited-edition Free Press branded hat or tote.

Digital Subscription

One year of digital access for only $205*

  • Enjoy unlimited reading on winnipegfreepress.com
  • Read the E-Edition, our digital replica newspaper
  • Access News Break, our award-winning app
  • Play interactive puzzles

*First annual payment billed as $205.00 + GST for one year. This annual subscription will automatically renew at $233.00 + GST every 52 weeks (10% off the regular annual price of $259.35). Offer available to new and qualified returning subscribers only. Cancel any time.

To continue reading, please subscribe:

Add Free Press access to your Brandon Sun subscription for only an additional

$1 for the first 4 weeks*

  • Enjoy unlimited reading on winnipegfreepress.com
  • Read the E-Edition, our digital replica newspaper
  • Access News Break, our award-winning app
  • Play interactive puzzles
Start now

*Your next Brandon Sun subscription payment will increase by $1.00 and you will be charged $17.95 plus GST for four weeks. After four weeks, your payment will increase to $24.95 plus GST every four weeks.

Opinion

Hey there, time traveller!
This article was published 13/11/2015 (3974 days ago), so information in it may no longer be current.

Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I’m a superstitious person and always stay home from work on Friday the 13th so I avoid everything that might cause me harm. I don’t leave the house at all. I know this is silly to most people, but it has worked for me and I’ve stayed safe for many years. The other day my new girlfriend (I am divorced from a superstitious person) asked me why I was planning to be away from work on Friday the 13th. She said cynically, “You have no real plans and don’t seem sick.” I took a chance and told her. She said, “Really? That’s ridiculous! What kind of baby are you?”

I told her I wasn’t going anywhere on Friday the 13th no matter how much she belittled me. She gave me a look and I felt a black curtain fall. She disrespects me for taking care of my superstitious feelings in a respectful way. I let my employer know way ahead of time I need that day off. It only happens a few times a year, it doesn’t hurt anyone and I feel secure staying in bed and reading.

All year I stay away from other things like black cats and walking under ladders, which are well-known dangers. She said, “You need a shrink in a hurry if you want to spend more time with me.” I just watched her go. Do you see any problem with this? My ex-wife was OK with it. We had a lot of other problems that brought us down.

— Superstitious Guy, Osborne Village

 

Dear Superstitious Guy: By the tone of your letter it seems you kind of groove on your situation and will not be going to see a shrink anytime soon. I’m a realist. Since you’re OK with this little quirk, what you need is a girlfriend/wife who shares your superstitious nature. The present girlfriend thinks you’re foolish, so you won’t even have to break up with her — it looks like she’s doing it for you.

 

Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@hotmail.com or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave., Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6

 

Miss Lonelyhearts

Miss Lonelyhearts
Advice Columnist

Our newsroom depends on a growing audience of readers to power our journalism. If you are not a paid reader, please consider becoming a subscriber.

Our newsroom depends on its audience of readers to power our journalism. Thank you for your support.

Report Error Submit a Tip

More Stories

Obsessed stalker who shot, killed young woman at bus stop in 1993 dies behind bars at age 74

Erik Pindera 3 minute read Preview

Obsessed stalker who shot, killed young woman at bus stop in 1993 dies behind bars at age 74

Erik Pindera 3 minute read Yesterday at 5:53 PM CDT

A Winnipeg man who stalked a woman for several years before shooting her dead in the street in 1993 has died in Stony Mountain prison.

On Monday, 74-year-old Ronald Edd Bell died of apparent natural causes at the federal prison just north of Winnipeg, the Correctional Service of Canada said.

Bell had been in prison since May 30, 1994, when he was given a life sentence with no chance of parole for 18 years for killing Terry-Lyn Babb, 25, on Jan. 21, 1993.

Bell walked up behind an unsuspecting Babb, who was waiting at a bus stop at Sherbrook Street and Wolseley Avenue, and shot her in the head with a pistol in front of horrified witnesses, says the Free Press report of his sentencing hearing.

Read
Yesterday at 5:53 PM CDT

In a smart-device world, some families keep phone jacked into the wall

Sheldon Birnie 8 minute read Preview

In a smart-device world, some families keep phone jacked into the wall

Sheldon Birnie 8 minute read Yesterday at 4:20 PM CDT

When the phone rings in Kristin Shiach and Jordan Sobkowicz’s Riverview home, their three daughters race to see who can be the first to answer.

“It depends who is closest,” says 13-year-old Emily. “If I’m sitting in my room, I can get to it quickest.”

“That’s because it’s always in your room,” Anna, 10, replies. “You never put it back!”

“Usually, when the phone rings,” explains Sobkowicz, “someone yells really loudly —”

Read
Yesterday at 4:20 PM CDT

Port of Churchill signs agreement with Dutch port

Aaron Epp 2 minute read Preview

Port of Churchill signs agreement with Dutch port

Aaron Epp 2 minute read Yesterday at 4:40 PM CDT

Arctic Gateway Group, operator of the Port of Churchill, has signed an agreement with the Port of Rotterdam in the Netherlands to attract business and strengthen supply chains linking Western Canada and Europe.

The agreement enables the two ports to work together to develop new trade in critical minerals and energy products, connect Canadian producers with European buyers, and identify opportunities to improve the supply chain from Western Canadian resource projects through Churchill and into European markets.

The Port of Rotterdam is Europe’s largest port and home to more than 3,000 businesses across its industrial complex, serving as a major gateway for critical raw materials and energy.

Meanwhile, the Port of Churchill has been identified as a transformative national strategy for Canada and is emerging as a northern trade corridor connecting Western Canada’s resources to global markets.

Read
Yesterday at 4:40 PM CDT

Bombers coach happy to be back at work after backbreaking loss to Argos

Taylor Allen 6 minute read Preview

Bombers coach happy to be back at work after backbreaking loss to Argos

Taylor Allen 6 minute read Yesterday at 8:16 PM CDT

It’s the first practice day after a backbreaking loss.

The Winnipeg Blue Bombers are in a challenging predicament with four games remaining — starting Saturday on the road against the Montreal Alouettes (11-3) — that leaves their playoff aspirations far from solidified.

And yet, head coach Mike O’Shea makes his way behind the podium, looks out at a room of reporters and is grinning ear to ear.

Why so happy?

Read
Yesterday at 8:16 PM CDT

Hero fought to remember children lost at residential school

Niigaan Sinclair 5 minute read Preview

Hero fought to remember children lost at residential school

Niigaan Sinclair 5 minute read Yesterday at 6:25 PM CDT

The story of the gravesites of students who attended the Brandon Indian Residential School underneath the Turtle Crossing Campground is truly a Manitoba tragedy.

Read
Yesterday at 6:25 PM CDT

Khan cites infighting, quits as Tory leader

Carol Sanders 5 minute read Preview

Khan cites infighting, quits as Tory leader

Carol Sanders 5 minute read Updated: Yesterday at 9:56 AM CDT

Manitoba’s Leader of the Opposition is stepping down.

Progressive Conservative Leader Obby Khan announced late Monday afternoon he is quitting caucus and will sit in the legislature as an independent MLA, effective today.

He cited internal party fighting for his decision.

The former Winnipeg Blue Bombers offensive lineman survived a caucus confidence vote Friday. He said there were 13 votes for him to remain and six against, with one person absent.

Read
Updated: Yesterday at 9:56 AM CDT