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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I know what my girlfriend bought me for Christmas and I don’t want it. She bought me a suit she thinks is appropriate for a man of my position in life. I’m a rich businessman’s son — whoop-de-doo. We sell boring stuff, and lots of it. What kind of “position” is that? I go into the office, but my father and his managers do all the important business. I’m expected to push unimportant papers until he dies and I take over.

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I know what my girlfriend bought me for Christmas and I don’t want it. She bought me a suit she thinks is appropriate for a man of my position in life. I’m a rich businessman’s son — whoop-de-doo. We sell boring stuff, and lots of it. What kind of “position” is that? I go into the office, but my father and his managers do all the important business. I’m expected to push unimportant papers until he dies and I take over.

I don’t want him to die. I love the man, but I’d rather be doing what I want to do in life, such as oil painting, which I love and am really good at. He has trained other guys to do the work he does, anyway. I don’t want that grey suit and the grey life that goes with it. My girlfriend is dying to be a rich corporate wife. I’m well aware the suit is symbolic. I saw the bill for it with the words “grey suit.”

Do you think I should tell her to take it back?

— Miserable, Winnipeg

 

Dear Miserable: In a word, yes. You should tell your girlfriend what you told me and ask for the suit to be returned. Then, surprise everyone, including yourself, by looking for a job in a creative area of business and start painting at night and on weekends and do a big show in 2016. You need to tell your dad soon that you don’t want to inherit his business and you don’t care if you’re not wealthy. He might be disappointed and angry at first — no doubt he’s scared to hand over the business he built up to somebody he doesn’t trust — but notice he’s not grooming you for it either. Interesting!

I think he might secretly enjoy seeing you finally show some backbone. It would be the ultimate saving of your distinctiveness and your soul to come forward and be your own man.

P.S. Put your girlfriend on notice you’re about to become an artist and see how fast she says goodbye to you.

 

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