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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I got into a slapping match with my best friend in the bathroom at a nightclub. She called me a dirty and nasty name and my reflex was to slap her mouth — so I did. It started to bleed and she put her hand up and saw blood and then she went after me. We both ended up bawling and, of course, we were both drunk, so we ended up getting all emotional and crying about our friendship, as soul sisters do. At the night we took a cab home together and we’re staying best friends.

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I got into a slapping match with my best friend in the bathroom at a nightclub. She called me a dirty and nasty name and my reflex was to slap her mouth — so I did. It started to bleed and she put her hand up and saw blood and then she went after me. We both ended up bawling and, of course, we were both drunk, so we ended up getting all emotional and crying about our friendship, as soul sisters do. At the night we took a cab home together and we’re staying best friends.

Our interfering buddies — some who witnessed the evening’s drama — think we should not be friends and have taken sides with me or her, when we don’t want that! How do we handle this stupid situation? Please help.

— Middle of the Storm, North End

 

Dear Middle of the Storm: Phone up the righteous girlfriends involved in this, and make liberal use of the word “forgiveness.” Say that you and the girl you fought with have had disagreements over the years, and this would never have gotten so bad if you hadn’t been drinking. Tell them you forgave each other that very night, had a good talk and have moved on from the problem.

Then say, “And I forgive you for mixing in. You were concerned for me and I understand that, so I’m letting that go. Now I’m asking you to forgive my friend, and we can all have peace in the land. Will you do that for me?” We need to be teaching each other these lessons about forgiveness, especially the way the world is now.

 

Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@hotmail.com or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave,. Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6

 

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