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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I just got home from a Mexican holiday with my best friend from work, and now I can't stand her. She acted like a sex maniac in Mexico. She got drunk every night and slept with a couple of different guys in a week. I went down there for fun and sun, not to be half of a stupid drunken duo at a resort.

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I just got home from a Mexican holiday with my best friend from work, and now I can’t stand her. She acted like a sex maniac in Mexico. She got drunk every night and slept with a couple of different guys in a week. I went down there for fun and sun, not to be half of a stupid drunken duo at a resort.

 

One night, she tried to kick me out of our room so she could bring in a guy and be alone with him in bed. I refused, and kicked them right back out in the hallway. The next night she snuck a guy into her bed quietly while I was sleeping, but I ended up waking up and all hell broke loose between us. He ran!

 

Now we’re back in Winnipeg at work, and it’s like nothing happened. She’s her ordinary self and wants to be friends again. We work together and it’s really awkward. What do you suggest? I’m not sorry for anything I did, but she should apologize to me.

— Her Fault, Not Mine, The Maples

 

Dear Her Fault: You should restore peace, but make a rule never to travel with her again. It’s best to have a pleasant relationship at work with her. If she never apologizes about the trip, be civil anyway for the sake of work, but let the friendship cool somewhat.

 

The next time you go travelling, go with a different friend you don’t have to see every day back at work. Consider getting your own rooms, so you have privacy should you meet someone, and a place to get away from your travelling partner and take a break from each other every day.

Did you know a lot of newlyweds can’t stand each other 24/7 on their honeymoons? It’s just too much intense time with anyone.

 

Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@hotmail.com or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave., Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6

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