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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: My heart is broken as my love affair with a couple is over. Never have I had so much joy and contentment as by having both a man and a woman in my bed at once. All parts of my mind and heart and body were fulfilled. Unfortunately the man and woman I loved so much have decided they want to be alone together to "work on their marriage." (I am a man.)

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: My heart is broken as my love affair with a couple is over. Never have I had so much joy and contentment as by having both a man and a woman in my bed at once. All parts of my mind and heart and body were fulfilled. Unfortunately the man and woman I loved so much have decided they want to be alone together to “work on their marriage.” (I am a man.)

I guess I was a just a diversion to them. Does that sound bitter? I guess I am. I understand they want to keep their primary partnership together, but why all of a sudden am I chopped liver? Is it because one of them loved me more than they should? One or the other would always say, “We love you,” before we went to sleep.

Then they just dismissed me over the phone like a servant. The woman called and had a kind voice when doing it, but I cried. I gave them all my love for months! I’m not sorry I did it, though. It was fulfilling a dream of mine and it was very exciting in the beginning. I just pray I don’t hear they have a new lover, and they just gave me excuses so they could move on and experiment. Meanwhile, I can tell no one but you. My friends wouldn’t understand.

— One is the Loneliest Number, Winnipeg

 

Dear One is the Loneliest Number: Once you recover, you might want to consider trying to put together a bisexual threesome love unit where the other two are not already a couple. My guess, because the woman made the call, was that she was the one getting more involved with you and knew you were going to be hurt. If the husband was angry, she wouldn’t want him to call you.

As long as this threesome was a game for the couple you were with, it didn’t threaten their marriage. Once emotions kicked in, the game became dangerous. It is sad you’re left hurting, but try to think of it as an introduction and a learning experience. Next time you need to find two loving people who are not already an established couple.

 

Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@hotmail.com or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave., Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6

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