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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I saw a story about a few women who had lost their husbands. It is really hard to stand the pain. I lost my husband suddenly, in an accident in 2012. We had four little girls: the oldest was eight years old and the youngest one was eight months old. That hurt so much, and still does, but I carried on.

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I saw a story about a few women who had lost their husbands. It is really hard to stand the pain. I lost my husband suddenly, in an accident in 2012. We had four little girls: the oldest was eight years old and the youngest one was eight months old. That hurt so much, and still does, but I carried on.

I got married again eight months later. My new husband has one son. So with God’s help, we continue through our lives and we hope to keep going. It’s not the first love and it never will be, but we are thankful for how, with help from above, we can go through this. I understand exactly how all of these women who have lost their husbands feel. It’s a painful and difficult time.

— Feeling for Them, Manitoba

 

Dear Feeling for Them: You are a real survivor and so is your husband. Now you are a big family — five children must have been quite different for this man — and yet you are both determined to carry on and make your lives a success. I really admire you and your husband for that. I’m wishing strength and happiness to you this season, when feelings are amped up. You will naturally remember other Christmases in the past, but you also know how to look forward and create new memories. Thank goodness you are a practical mother and your new husband was adventurous enough to take on a whole family, plus his own child.

 

Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@hotmail.com or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave., Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6

 

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