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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: Last month, I went on a trip to Mexico with my new love. It was all right, a four out of 10. I had to push her to go to different restaurants instead of sticking with the first one, because it didn’t make her stomach sick. She also didn’t like going out in the ocean, because there might be sharks. She didn’t like the sun, so we never lay on the beach. We couldn’t walk on the beach at sunset because she was afraid of being attacked by bad people when it got dark.

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: Last month, I went on a trip to Mexico with my new love. It was all right, a four out of 10. I had to push her to go to different restaurants instead of sticking with the first one, because it didn’t make her stomach sick. She also didn’t like going out in the ocean, because there might be sharks. She didn’t like the sun, so we never lay on the beach. We couldn’t walk on the beach at sunset because she was afraid of being attacked by bad people when it got dark.

I was deeply turned off. But, when we got back home, she smiled again, and went back to being a happy, active, fun-loving Winnipegger.

Still, I’m bothered by what a total wet blanket she is as a traveller. Do I want to stay home at holiday time all my lifetime? I love holidays in foreign places. I asked her if she’d like to go to Europe with me, and she said “maybe… but only to civilized countries.” I told her European countries were more sophisticated than this pioneer colony we live in.

Could such a scaredy-cat be a good mother if we had children? Would she teach them to be afraid of everything beyond their own neighbourhood?

— Turned Off The Wuss, River Heights

Dear Turned Off: Consider yourself warned. You got a peek at the careful, stay-at-home side of this woman. She won’t be happily transplanted outside of Canada, even for a few weeks. Since you’re serious about travelling and winter holidays, you’ll be resentful giving that up. You could go away as a lone wolf, or go with buddies who generally like to get wild, once they are away from their wives.

If this woman is a potential life partner, think hard about what kind of life you would have with her. It’s the wet blanket who rules. Is she unable to compromise? She may well teach your children to be afraid of the unknown, or taking a chance. You need to find this out before you marry her. Life is too short to commit yourself to a stick in the mud.

 

Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I just met a fascinating man at a weekend conference I think I could fall in love with! I only knew his first name, but he looked vaguely familiar. Afterwards, I did some research as only a woman with a big crush can do, and found out his last name. Then it came to me — I attended his wedding years ago to a girl I knew from college. His hair is greying now, but it’s him all right.

I wasn’t a close friend of the bride and was invited as part of the college group. Is it gauche of me to consider asking him for a date? He’s a little shy, but I have found out he’s now divorced. He’s fair game, isn’t he? I didn’t even know him when they were married. I left the province and came back 10 years later.

I want to go after him! Is there anything holding me back?

— Polite Canadian, St. Boniface

Dear Polite: You’ll need to do some further sleuthing to determine if he’s seeing or even living with someone. Should you go on a date, mention the fact you knew his ex-wife slightly, and were invited to the wedding with a group from college. He probably won’t remember you, but that way you aren’t hiding anything. Good luck and let us know how it goes!

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