She has her cake, and eats out, too

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Dear Lonelyhearts: My husband came home very late at night wearing two men’s shoes that didn’t match. When I asked him why, his face went red and he said, “Oh, I must have worn one of two different pairs out tonight.” I said, “Let’s go have a look in your closet!” in my scariest voice. Suddenly he was stammering and, of course, there were no matching shoes to the ones he wore home.

I’m a smart woman and have been living with this cheater for 15 years. I looked at him and said, “I bet I know whose shoes those are.” Then I picked up the phone and called his last known affair’s house. It rang and rang and rang. The next day I went over and left the two mismatched shoes from my husband’s feet, on her back step.

You may be feeling sorry for me because my husband is a longtime cheater and I know about it and haven’t left him because I don’t want to. He makes a lot of money, we have a great lifestyle, he’s good to the kids and decent in bed. But, here’s the part that really works for me — for the last 13 years I have had a lover he doesn’t know about. I don’t feel one bit guilty about that. Besides, when my husband gets caught, he treats me real nice and I usually get a vacation out of the deal, lots of flowers and very sweet treatment for several months. He doesn’t want to lose a second wife and another set of kids. His business associates really like me and I entertain for him in big style, which brings him more business.

I just get so tired of these ninnies who write in to complain about their straying husbands. Get a private life of your own, ladies, and you won’t have to worry about it! — Even Playing Field, Winnipeg

Dear Even Playing Field: This wouldn’t be everybody’s style but it seems to be working for you just fine. Be careful where you brag about it. That may be your downfall.

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