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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I’m a country woman and went to the States with my new sweetheart from Winnipeg that I met online. We’re both separated. We had a great weekend at a hotel with swimming pools and hot tubs. At one point, I wanted to get out of the water, dry off and change, and my guy wanted to stay in the water. When I got in the room, I saw his wallet still in his jeans, and I couldn’t help myself from snooping. The first thing I looked at was his driver’s licence picture, and the birthdate made him six years older than the age 45 he told me he was. Fifty-one is nine years older than my 42. That wouldn’t have been such a big deal, except he lied about it. He’s athletic and has very few lines, but what else did he lie about?

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I’m a country woman and went to the States with my new sweetheart from Winnipeg that I met online. We’re both separated. We had a great weekend at a hotel with swimming pools and hot tubs. At one point, I wanted to get out of the water, dry off and change, and my guy wanted to stay in the water. When I got in the room, I saw his wallet still in his jeans, and I couldn’t help myself from snooping. The first thing I looked at was his driver’s licence picture, and the birthdate made him six years older than the age 45 he told me he was. Fifty-one is nine years older than my 42. That wouldn’t have been such a big deal, except he lied about it. He’s athletic and has very few lines, but what else did he lie about?

When we got back to my town, I said, “Thanks for a fun weekend. It’s really too bad you lied to me about your age.” Then he started squawking about me looking in his wallet without permission. I just gave him a look. The next day he phoned to say he was sorry and that he shouldn’t have lied, but he wouldn’t have met me if he told the truth. Today I got a dozen roses at work. I’m not impressed, but he was a really great lover. What do you think? — Got Doubts, Small Town, Manitoba

 

Dear Got Doubts: It’s early and you’re not in love with this guy, yet. This would be a good time to exit and find someone who’s a better bet. You would always wonder what else this man was hiding from you. There’s nothing worse than being given a hot clue in the beginning as to a person’s character, ignoring it, and then finding out down the line you should have taken heed when you weren’t so emotionally involved.

And, here’s some really good news: lots of men are great lovers, and many who are mediocre are thrilled to be taught. Don’t ever hang onto a liar for impressive sex.

 

Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@hotmail.com or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave., Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6

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