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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I gave my girlfriend a diamond engagement ring and she didn’t like it. She wants to be engaged, but she wants to have a say in the ring. I thought it should be something I came up with, from my heart. She argued she would have to wear it every day, and what if it didn’t suit her? I won the argument and gave her a big sparkler. Today she handed it back and said, “I can’t wear this big clunky thing on my skinny finger.” Now what do I do?

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I gave my girlfriend a diamond engagement ring and she didn’t like it. She wants to be engaged, but she wants to have a say in the ring. I thought it should be something I came up with, from my heart. She argued she would have to wear it every day, and what if it didn’t suit her? I won the argument and gave her a big sparkler. Today she handed it back and said, “I can’t wear this big clunky thing on my skinny finger.” Now what do I do?

— Back to Square One, St. Norbert

 

Dear Back to Square One: Would you want a splashy diamond horseshoe to wear on your finger the rest of your life? Frankly, it appears you’re a pusher and your fiancée is a delayed-reaction person who can push back. Cash that big fat sparkler in and go shopping with her so she can pick out a delicate ring that suits her. That will make her happy and put the sparkle back in her eye, which is where it counts.

 

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