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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: My husband has made and invested a lot of money and he is now a wealthy man. He wants to move out of the city and have a horse farm. He has talked of nothing else since we went to the Cavalia Odysseo show. I went once — it was a beautiful show, but once was enough — and he went many times. I don’t want to breed horses or whatever crazy thing he wants to do. He retired recently, but I’m not, and I love my job, which is very social and keeps me in the city. What should I do to stop this foolishness?

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: My husband has made and invested a lot of money and he is now a wealthy man. He wants to move out of the city and have a horse farm. He has talked of nothing else since we went to the Cavalia Odysseo show. I went once — it was a beautiful show, but once was enough — and he went many times. I don’t want to breed horses or whatever crazy thing he wants to do. He retired recently, but I’m not, and I love my job, which is very social and keeps me in the city. What should I do to stop this foolishness?

— Not Going To Happen, Southdale

 

Dear Not Going to Happen: Standing in the way of a partner’s dream is a big mistake, especially when they have the means to make it a reality. You don’t say your husband is asking you to retire, he’s asking you to commute. Can you persuade him to look at having his ranch very near the city limits? Sometimes a commute is less time-consuming than a drive through the centre of the city at rush hour.

Marriage is supposed to expand a person’s life, not limit it. Since there is a lot of money to throw at this problem, you could get an apartment in the city to stay in when the roads are bad or you have a late-evening event. At least, try it. To forbid the dream would cause an angry wound and simmering resentment, and he may change his mind about loving you.

Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@hotmail.com or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave., Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6

 

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: My husband has made and invested a lot of money and he is now a wealthy man. He wants to move out of the city and have a horse farm. He has talked of nothing else since we went to the Cavalia Odysseo show. I went once — it was a beautiful show, but once was enough — and he went many times. I don’t want to breed horses or whatever crazy thing he wants to do. He retired recently, but I’m not, and I love my job, which is very social and keeps me in the city. What should I do to stop this foolishness?

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