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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I ran into an old boyfriend, quite literally. Wham! We bumped into each other in a crowd at the mall. We recognized each other immediately, and out of an old reflex, kissed each other right on the mouth. We decided to go to the food court for coffee, which turned into supper. We had so much catching up to do. We still had that easy back and forth and agreed on many things.

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I ran into an old boyfriend, quite literally. Wham! We bumped into each other in a crowd at the mall. We recognized each other immediately, and out of an old reflex, kissed each other right on the mouth. We decided to go to the food court for coffee, which turned into supper. We had so much catching up to do. We still had that easy back and forth and agreed on many things.

 

We broke up years ago because we both felt we were too young to get married at 18 and went off in two directions for training and university. The trouble is, he has been married since and has a child. He and his wife are separated, but he is an involved father. I don’t have anybody right now, but I’m worried. He has already asked me out twice and I went and it was great. Why am I dragging my feet?

— Old Loves Meet, West Kildonan

 

Dear Old Loves Meet: What’s the matter, you don’t like little kids? If that’s the case, as they say in old cartoons, time to vamoose! Life isn’t tidy in 2016. If he’s totally through with his ex-wife and not in a trial separation, maybe it’s the best luck ever that he fell into your arms in the middle of a crowd. You have to take some chances in life, and this one seems like a good chance to take. Find out if he’s still the guy you loved when you were teenagers, and dig into the reason his marriage fell apart. Don’t be afraid to ask those questions. You need to know how he handled a serious relationship, and how he feels about that woman.

 

Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@hotmail.com or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave., Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6

 

 

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I ran into an old boyfriend, quite literally. Wham! We bumped into each other in a crowd at the mall. We recognized each other immediately, and out of an old reflex, kissed each other right on the mouth. We decided to go to the food court for coffee, which turned into supper. We had so much catching up to do. We still had that easy back and forth and agreed on many things.

 

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