Girlfriend deserves to be in the doghouse

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I don’t like my boyfriend’s dog, so when I stay over, I secretly put the dog out in the backyard when he goes to work. This was working just fine until one of his neighbours asked him why the dog was out so many hours in the morning. Apparently, he whines and barks and begs for attention from the neighbour through the chain-link fence. I don’t hear it, because I’m in my guy’s front bedroom on the second floor with my earplugs in and sleeping mask on. I get off work late and I need my sleep in the morning!

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I don’t like my boyfriend’s dog, so when I stay over, I secretly put the dog out in the backyard when he goes to work. This was working just fine until one of his neighbours asked him why the dog was out so many hours in the morning. Apparently, he whines and barks and begs for attention from the neighbour through the chain-link fence. I don’t hear it, because I’m in my guy’s front bedroom on the second floor with my earplugs in and sleeping mask on. I get off work late and I need my sleep in the morning!

My boyfriend was furious when he repeated to me what this man had told him. He said I’d have to sleep at my own apartment, because the dog couldn’t be left outside for hours in the winter. I told him my comfort as a human being should be more important than a stupid dog’s! He yelled at me to get all my stuff together and drove me home.

He must be sulking. He hasn’t phoned me for days and I don’t know if I should call him. His last words to me were, “How would you like me to throw you out in the backyard for eight hours?” The dog has fur to keep him warm, for God’s sake! Do you think he’ll get over this stupid fuss? — Not Appreciated, Downtown

Dear Not Appreciated: No, this boyfriend won’t be calling you back, nor will you be kicking his dog out ever again. While Fido may have fur, cold weather has arrived. With you in charge, the dog might get a bowl of ice water and food frozen into a hard chunk. As for the enjoyment of a loving companion, attention, patting, walks and loving words, that’s never happening — not with you. That dog will be alone, freezing, until you get up and decide to go. Clearly his owner is not going to take another chance on that. Congratulations to the neighbour who told him how you treat his dog when he’s not around.

 

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Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I don’t like my boyfriend’s dog, so when I stay over, I secretly put the dog out in the backyard when he goes to work. This was working just fine until one of his neighbours asked him why the dog was out so many hours in the morning. Apparently, he whines and barks and begs for attention from the neighbour through the chain-link fence. I don’t hear it, because I’m in my guy’s front bedroom on the second floor with my earplugs in and sleeping mask on. I get off work late and I need my sleep in the morning!

My boyfriend was furious when he repeated to me what this man had told him. He said I’d have to sleep at my own apartment, because the dog couldn’t be left outside for hours in the winter. I told him my comfort as a human being should be more important than a stupid dog’s! He yelled at me to get all my stuff together and drove me home.

He must be sulking. He hasn’t phoned me for days and I don’t know if I should call him. His last words to me were, “How would you like me to throw you out in the backyard for eight hours?” The dog has fur to keep him warm, for God’s sake! Do you think he’ll get over this stupid fuss? — Not Appreciated, Downtown

Dear Not Appreciated: No, this boyfriend won’t be calling you back, nor will you be kicking his dog out ever again. While Fido may have fur, cold weather has arrived. With you in charge, the dog might get a bowl of ice water and food frozen into a hard chunk. As for the enjoyment of a loving companion, attention, patting, walks and loving words, that’s never happening — not with you. That dog will be alone, freezing, until you get up and decide to go. Clearly his owner is not going to take another chance on that. Congratulations to the neighbour who told him how you treat his dog when he’s not around.

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